Since the Stygian Abyss client has only been out a short time, it's all but assured the settings in your router refer to the older 2D Classic Client settings. There are no other Ultima online games besides Ultima Online, so it's the right game.
As for the IP address, perhaps just add them all if you think it's not applying the rules to the right computer/IP address.
If it's still a port/rules issue(after you get the computer/IP address thing sorted out), could give a try at setting up a set of custom port rules(using the aforementioned list of ports). Again, you could either attempt this yourself or call your ISP for step-by-step assistance since it's their device they'd be giving you support on.
We'll make a network tech out of you yet!

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