Elfstone, you're fine here and not in any way going to get banned. We just don't allow bashing of other sites and request that conversations be kept in a family friendly way. It doesn't mean you can't get "down" on things in
UO. Just post them in a non volitile way.
As far as Siege. I used to play there a lot, I've gone back to my roots on Ches, but I have a ton of things on Siege I can hook you up with. Let me know what you need. Also the Siege forum here is not that active, perhaps because we DON'T allow rudeness who knows, but there's no reason why you can't bring life to it as an experienced player. Give it a shot my friend