OK i got ss at 101
and wrestle at 34!

What doi do in black rock to get them at my cap 115?

SS usually just gains passivley with Necro, but you could always just actively use the skill as well to see how good of gains you get...

Wrestle at 34...go to the Jhelom fighting pit and find a 6gp hireling without any weapon in their hand. You should be able to gate them to the BR area and fight them there. You should get decent gains to about 65ish. After that, go back and get a 8gp up to around 75, then down to 7gp till 90 and back up to 8gp for GM+. Not sure how well itll work, but thats from Stratics Warrior Melee gaining guide...

Kettle's right. Also you can do summon creature and wrestle whatever you might summon if it's weak enough. A little harder cause it's a random creature all the time, but no gating involved, plus if your pet dies you can just summon another one.

Good call Merc!

Im guessing after about 60 Blade Spirits would work? Then maybe after 85ish, EVs?

well it gains slow using necro skills should i just use ss skill over and over? and for wrestling im necro mage and i can go in horrific beast form...and attk summon creature?

The Horrific Beast is a great idea, if it increases your chance to hit...cant remember. If its only Dam Inc, then no. You want it to stay alive so you can keep hitting and gaining...

its adds massive hp regen...

Thats a bonus...

Gonna have to try that, I'm only at gm but capped at 120.

A handy way to gain Spirit speak is to have Necro on a stone while you do this...

Get an elf with decent or better mana regen and cast the spell Curse Weapon. It is a fast cast spell and uses very little mana. Reason to drop necro to Nil is cause then you can fail at casting it too. Elf form is sujested cause Humans with UOML or better have the JackOfAllTrade skills and would be successful more in casting it. Before lower mana cost is put in the equasion, it is only like 7 mana to cast. with higher LMC [keeping the 40 lmc cap in mind], it is down to like 4 mana per cast. With all this in mind, and only successfully casting like one in two times (guessing) you have a lot more attempts at a spirit speak gain then by activly using spirit speak skill by itself. IF you do still have mana issues then keep in mind just casting SS over and over again will still work even when out of mana as the skill check on that aplies to the casting of the skill and not just the gaining of health back. Hope this helps