Heres what I understand so far:

- Have at least 70 archery (prob could have less but gains work better I think at this level)
- Have a GM tinkered golem (but I am told less than GM works as well too)
- Be in a guild
- Have a 100% poison bow with no added damage modifies such as hit area% or fireball% etc.
- Take golem to an area just outside of town, preferably near a stable.

- say "all guard me"
- say "all guard me"
- say "all kill" and target yourself
- immediatly say "all stop"
- say "all guard me"

-Have at least 80 archery Yes
-Have at least 20+ in archery mods not needed, just be at 80
-Have a GM tinkered golemYes, but CAN use lower.
-Be in a guild and in tram (Ive been using Luna)Yes, but OUT of town

- say "all guard me" 2 timesyes
- attack golem Have you tried telling the golem to attack YOU? Without attackign it?
-immediately say "all stop"yes

We have a guide (with quite a few responses) here

I believe you need to tab out of war mode also.

You don't need 80 skill to train on a golem. You just need to be within 20 skill points. If the golem has 80 wrestling, you can start training at 60 archery. I usually started with a low skill golem and then switch to a higher skill one later on.

have tried everything ;/ do you think they might have ninja-nerfed it? the golem keeps attacking me every few seconds =/

Sometimes it just won't work. Try again tomorrow or get another golem.

Check...and Check ;) still no worky! ..the uo gods hate me =/

everything is fine except you stay in peace mode and say

all kill -then target yourself and get hit
all stop
all guard me

That will get you into auto defend.

AH HA! I think thats what I wasnt doing... saying All Guard Me again AFTER I tell it to stop ;) seems to be working now ;)))) your a life saver!

Nobody mentioned the obvious here, but in case anyone else has questions and doesn't know, make sure you use a 100% poison damage weapon with no other damage modifiers that will change the amount of damage you do (a little damage increase is fine, but no hit spells or hit area damage).

Edited the first post to add some of the tips people have left. I got the golem to stop attacking me.. but i gain very very very slow. I shot it for 10 minutes and didnt gain a single .1. not sure if this is working as intended, or if maybe im still screwing something up.