Ok so I been working on this tamer

Currently:

Animal Lore 106.9/110
Animal taming 86/100
Med 86.9/100
Vet 86.1/100
music 82.3/100
magery 81.9/100
eval 68.4/100
focus 49.9/100
resist 25.8/100
Peace 25.6/100

Question is which direction should I take it? I took 2 Ki-rins to demon room in fire and was totally owned it wasnt fun.

You may want to check out this thread over in the Skills forum. Probably gives you some ideas that will be useful.

Mage/Tamer

How long have you been playing a tamer? The reason I ask is that if you haven't been playing long, you probably bit off more than you can chew by going to fight Daemons before you have fully trained pets at your command.

Ki-Rin are nice little pets, but rather deficient in HP compared to some of the new pets. A ki-rin in tandem with a Bake Kitsune might be a better choice, especially if both are reasonably trained. Rather than taking on Daemons, also, you might be better off working Ogre Lords in Despise until you are more confident in your abilities.

you have way too many skills. that is why you are not very effective.

you can try:

Mage
EI
Taming
Vet
Lore
Med

or
Taming
Vet
Lore
Music
Peace
Mage