It really depends on what you want to do with your template. I am going 110 lore/tame/vet/magery/evalint/spellweaving and 60 med

With fc/fcr jewels and only at 2/4 I have no trouble staying alive.

Spellweaving is also really amazing for when you don't have a pet. The fey work wonders, as does natures fury. Plus being able to charm humanoids is nice. Eval int over 100 makes your bless more effective than most pets as well, and I have found constantly blessing your pets to do wonders on damage and such.

Also I'm not 100% sure, but I think necros can cast corpse skin on their tamed dragons, and it will increase the physical resist but decrease the fire/poison. This on Greater Dragons seems to be amazing on some fights, as not many things poison, and if they do it doesn't do much damage, and GD's have insane fire resist anyway. My friend does this and his GD ends up with a spankin 94% physical resist!