*points* Lol DiP.
In my signature are several useful links. Check out the common FAQ forum link most of all.
As to training and templates, I always suggest around 72 chivalry and at least 60 bushido.
Bushido has the most potential at higher levels, but 50 will give you the benefit of free mana, stamina, and health when you use the honor virtue on a monster. At 60 you can use lighting strike, which will help you hit more (more information in the Warrior forum).
Be sure to check out DiP's (sheepless and sockless) Parry Guide. Great info in there.
If you can, try to find a vendor that sells dungeon and town rune pre-marked books. I checked luna for you, but there are none for sale there atm.
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