I was thinking along the lines of:

Magery 120
Eval. Intel. 120
Focus 100
Swordsmanship 120
Tactics 120
Parry120

With stats at:

STR 90
DEX 70
INT 90

Will no anatomy hurt my melee a lot? I have focus and not med because I wanted to use non-mage armor, and try to get as much +MR as I can.

Should points in DEX be shifted to STR or INT?

Playstyle: slightly more emphasis on spell slinging, melee maybe 1/4 of the time.