"As For My Being MIA if i felt it was a matter the Shard Needed to know about i would prob have posted about it. Remind me to ask you for a copy of your IRA accounts or some other personal issue on a public forum later ok... See my point it was of no concern to the shard or does/did it have any thing to do with the shard."

Since you added this part in after posting ...

Or a hey i'm fine ... ty .. just busy ... that would at least let those who care about you feel better then a 'no comment' ....