Get rid of anat/heal and try to get to atleast 4fc, now put in parry and bushido in its place. My dp dexer is as follows
110 bush
100 chiv
110 ninjitsu
120 mace
80 poison
115 resist
80 tactics(you can throw this wherever you want, I decided tactics for DI)

My forms of healing are chiv heals, confidence, and pots when I have them. I took a variaton of Cutters nox/ninja and customized it a bit my way. I keep my dex at 90, and use weaps that are 3s and under. I keep my str high, and mana is 100. MR is important here, as well as mana leech on weapons.

I try to get this off as a combo, nox/ds/holy light(to stop cures from mages) HL HL HL, nox again, weapon special like conc blow/crushing blow, OoooOooOO