The temp I've come up with is:

120 Magery
120 Eval Int
100 Resist
100 Parry
80 Poison

need suggestion on how to split the rest between these last 3 but want all of them.

Healing 70?80?
Anatomy 70?80?
Medi 60?40?

Str: 70 or 80
Dex: 80
Int: 100 or 90

I plan on using book and shield normally and a mage weapon sword or swords of prosperity to poison in melee.

Also, if i have the book and shield in my hand do the evade and parry sort of combine? Do i still get the evade if i have a sword and shield in my hand?

I'll need some mana regen gear and some int/str increase gear. If you guys have any items you'd suggest please let me know.

in order to evade you need bushido first.

finally, get rid of heal/anat. your heals will take like 6-8 seconds, and wont do you one bit of good, since you can heal faster with mini heals and cures.

you can parry just fine with a book/shield, and I believe evade works better if you use a 2 handed weapon, but isnt absolutely required to evade.